What I'm really thinking: the mother of a bully

"I think of all the letters of apology that I must write, and that disturbs a child to a play group, saying it was stupid"

When I meet other parents, there is often a mother talking about how his son was bullied at school. Others say that schools have had to move to escape a pursuer who was to make her son's life a misery. I say nothing, because my son is a tyrant. I rack my brains for a way to join the conversation to help them understand how I feel. But even if the application is successful people, you know you are trying in some way. So I'm quiet.

• think of all the letters of apology that I must write, and that disturbs a child to a play group, saying it was stupid. Time for a Playdate mother rejected several invitations before finally told us that my daughter had called her fat girl. Or when he said something bad to her best friend, who cried for hours. I wanted nothing but love for the girl and attention, and when she did not understand, she left with the worst possible thing. I tried to explain that if you want people like, what you do, you should be good for them. But you can not say things that children like this, you need to lead by example. What makes me think there must have been harassed throughout his life.

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hear that many others have complained that their son, you feel so ashamed. Are you afraid to ask anything. And you can not talk to the door of the school friends of his. How can you? They could have been those who complain.

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