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Sex and Islam do mix, but not in America | Wajahat Ali

Muslim youth are invited to go from 0 to 60 mph with a spouse and 2.3 children without being told to start the engine

flirting contradictory and passive-aggressive U.S. with sexuality is reflected in their Muslim communities. For some, it is difficult to believe that the sexual organs work the same if they are hidden behind a burqa or a bikini. As a Muslim man, I can see that Muslims experience the same discomfort universal search "hair in new places," like any other pimply teenager, the onslaught of puberty is precisely the time when Parents need to be the "birds and bees" talk to facilitate open lines of communication to guide you through these changes.

In many Muslim families in the United States, however, provides that the conference is "Do not do it." Although "he" is not defined, everyone generally understands "" as a catch-available basis for any activity from first to fourth place with the opposite sex before marriage. Presumably, the freedom of the university automatically heal all these repressions of society and allow parents to be more open. However, the story of the humorist and journalist Ali Aman is sadly familiar to many American Muslims:

"When I started college, my mother told me:" You are there to study, if I catch you talking to a girl, I'll break your neck When I got I graduated, my mother. said, "Why not find a good girl to marry you is so old? "

For readers unaware of the religious traditions of Islam, following a reductionist stereotype of Islam as a rugged land of angry men, bearded necessarily have sex with women oppressed and joyless silent between episodes of burning American flags and eating large amounts of humus. The other extreme representation of sexuality Islamic orientalist fantasy play as shown by the creators of Sex and the City 2 and the characteristics of harems, water pipes, magic carpets and a pornocopia fetishes unfit to print.

However, Islam, practiced by the Prophet Muhammad, is refreshingly frank and humane in the treatment of sexuality. The hadith literature - collections of documents such academic, behavior and etiquette of the prophet - provides ample evidence of that. The first followers of Islam flatly asked the Prophet about sex and marriage in order to properly perform his new religion. Many books have been written by leading academics, citing healthy attitude towards sexuality prophet, who encouraged the preliminaries, joy and compassion among consenting married adults.

prophetic behavior towards sex has been abandoned by several American Muslim communities, especially those of immigrant origin, in favor of absolute silence. Issues such as recognition of realities such as pregnancy before marriage and adultery are rarely mentioned in many Muslim circles. The fear is that the recognition would serve as an endorsement, validation and inspiration for unIslamic sexual deviation

Sometimes, the former functions as a major prophylaxis. This is particularly visible in what is now considered the great "epidemic" of individual professionals, Muslim American women in their 30s who are facing a double standard. Unlike men, who are unfairly accused domesticity lose the love of personal ambition. As communities have failed to establish a health paradigm for social interaction, there is no quick fix. So, are increasingly marginalized, such as depreciation, ultimately destined to wander forever as the dead walk alone. Single Muslim men in their 30s are like Will Smith, I Am Legend - only representatives of an extinct species growing in the desert nomads of loneliness and depression. Assumptions are either homosexual is an actor of sexual promiscuity and therefore unfit for marriage, or having problems with your "team".


mosques and Muslim community centers to ensure gender, remain. Gender dynamics that appear in several of these social environments reflect the hypocrisy and absurdity of gender relations in Muslim countries in America. Gender segregation is often exaggerated in some mosques are actually generates the exact behavior and mentality that seeks to eliminate. These are individual Muslims like kinky sex, wild beasts ready to pounce on others as a heroine of Jane Austen unleashed on her wedding night. The walls between genres, both literal and figurative - are similar to the pink elephants. The more is asked not to think about it, the more it is not.


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